Friday, August 10, 2007

Just a quickie.....!

.....Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......



I got a phone call yesterday from the lady that came here the day before.
She told me that she had already excepted my waiver! YAY! She had also told me that she signed me up for a few things as well....like adult day care. I know, that sounds funny...but what it is, is it will get me out of the house and with others like me! I can't wait! :o)
So, that was such great news for me! She told me that it would take 2 to 3 weeks for me to find out....and then getting a call from her the next day! YAY! :o)


Today, I'm going to try and get out of the house with my daughter. Since it's not as hot as it has been...I'll be ok. :o)
And...my grandson will be coming too! lol I know I'll have fun!


Well....just had to tell you about the waiver! I hope that everyone is having a great day! God's blessings to you all!
 


 


Humor!


We've all had trouble with our animals, but I don't think anyone
can top this one:

Calling in sick to work makes me uncomfortable. No matter how
legitimate my excuse, I always get the feeling that my boss thinks
I'm lying.

On one recent occasion, I had a valid reason but lied anyway,
because the truth was just too darned humiliating. I simply
mentioned that I had sustained a head injury, and I hoped I would
feel up to coming in the next day. By then, I reasoned, I could
think up a doozy to explain the bandage on the top of my head. The
accident occurred mainly because I had given in to my wife's
wishes to adopt a cute little kitty. The new acquisition
was no problem.

Then one morning, I was taking my shower after breakfast when I
heard my wife, Deb, call out to me from the kitchen. Honey! The
garbage disposal is dead again. Please come reset it."

"You know where the button is," I protested through the shower
pitter-patter and steam. "Reset it yourself!"

But I'm scared!" she persisted. "What if it starts going and sucks me
in?"

There was a meaningful pause and then, "C'mon, it'll only take you
a second."

So out I came, dripping wet and butt naked, hoping that my silent
outraged nudity would make a statement about how I perceived her
behavior as extremely cowardly.

Sighing loudly, I squatted down and stuck my head under the sink
to find the button. It is the last action I remember performing.
It struck without warning, and without any respect to my
circumstances. It wasn't the hexed disposal, drawing me into its
gnashing metal teeth. It was our new kitty, who discovered the
fascinating dangling objects she spied hanging between my
legs. She had been poised around the corner and stalked me as I
reached under the sink.

And, at the precise moment when I was most vulnerable, she leapt
at the toys I unwittingly offered and snagged them with her needle- like
claws. I lost all rational thought to control orderly bodily
movements, blindly rising at a violent rate of speed, with the
full weight of a kitten hanging from my masculine region.

Wild animals are sometimes faced with a "fight or flight"
syndrome. Men, in this predicament, choose only the "flight"
option. I know this from experience. I was fleeing straight up
into the air when the sink and cabinet bluntly and forcefully
impeded my ascent. The impact knocked me out cold. When I awoke,
my wife and the paramedics stood over me.

Now there are not many things in this life worse than finding
oneself lying on the kitchen floor butt naked in front of a group
of "been-there, done-that" paramedics. Even worse, having been
fully briefed by my wife, the paramedics were all snorting loudly
as they tried to conduct their work, all the while trying to
suppress their hysterical laughter...and not succeeding.

Somehow I lived through it all. A few days later I finally made it
back in to the office, where colleagues tried to coax an
explanation out of me about my head injury. I kept silent,
claiming it was too painful to talk about, which it was. "What's
the matter?" They all asked, "Cat got your tongue?"
If they only knew!



sent to my by my friend! lol


 



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Thursday, August 9, 2007

A request

I want to thank everyone that reads Lisa's journal for all of your prayers and support. Hopefully I will be able to get my daughter found and home soon. I never knew this world existed and now that I do I have found it to be a nightmare.  Again I want to thank you all it is appreciated more than I could ever say.

Rhonda (and I am sure Elisha would say thanks also)

 

 

This is from my best friend....and thank all of you for your prayers and support.

 

Lisa

 

Videos/pictures/and more!

.....Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......


 







Yesterday....my son and his girlfriend came home from their vacation in Gatlinburg! I really missed them.


When the lady came here yesterday for the Ohio Home Care Program...I wished dh was here or my daughter. She was here alittle over 2 hours! She was asking me all kinds of questions that I just for the life of me can't remember! If I would have had someone else here with me, they could have helped me with all of her questions. Then she had to look at the house to see if I can get around in it with my walker and my wheelchair. She looked at my bedroom and seen that I had a toilet in there. She also told me that I'm suppose to have a nurse come once a week to take my vitals! A nurse from the agency that I have my physical therapist and home health aid from. I didn't know that! She told me for two reasons; one...because of the small heart attack...and the other because of certain illnesses I have! She said she'll look into why this isn't happening. I told her that I check my blood pressure on my own because I have a little machine with a cuff. Not good enough...a nurse has to take my vitals and the log them.

So....that took up most of the afternoon! I layed down after she left....and then my son wakes me up! YAY! :o) He got home around 5:00! They showed me where they stayed and had a lot of pictures to show me too! I say...since my daughter and my son have already taken a vacation down in Gatlinburg...it's dh's and my turn! lol That would be nice!
I was sitting in my bed watching tv...and it was about 7:30 or so, and here comes my daughter and granson! YAY! I had all of my "medicines" home with me! :o) What a night it was! My grandson wanted to go out back and play ball, but it was still too hot and was getting dark out. So...they played football in the house! lol That was too funny!
I picked him up....I just can't help not to...and I'm paying for it today! :o) It is well worth it in my eyes!

I need to go so I can to your journals! And I wish you all a happy day!
Gods blessings to all of you!

My daughter had this made for me! I love it! :o)


 


Wednesday, August 8, 2007

~Such a nice day~

Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......



Good morning! I hope that everyone is staying cool in all of this heat we've been having!


Yesterday...I got 2 visiters! My best friend came over. She had the day off. She was telling me more about the magsalesmen that she found out after posting her daughter's information on some massge boards. There are some people that are trying their best to help her find her daughter. I'm doing my best to try and help by posting things about this.

My mom came over as well! I haven't seen her in awhile. I told her the good news about the phone call I got....for the appointment in Cincy! She was excited about that as well. My dh is going to go with us, because He wants to make sure to tell the doctor what he wittnesses with me. I'm so thankful for that!

So, my day was so nice! I love to have my family around me! And my best friend is like a sister to me. :o)
My daughter called me last night and invited me to go to the YMCA with them so I could get in the water. I had to turn it down....I don't like doing that. But, today is when a lady will be coming here from the Ohio Home Care Program, and my home health aid as well. So today is already filled. But, I can try and go another time!

The above is to all my J-Land friends!
I appreciate you all for standing by me while I go through the things I do! Thank you!
Now logging a little bit more. My spine/back is feeling a bit better. My upper arms and shoulders our in a lot of pains. My hips and legs are the same. Like I'm walking in something'thick.' Hard to move my legs at times. .....This too shall pass!
Gods blessing to all of you!



 


magsales





Dayton, Ohio
March 14, 2007
Dream jobs become nightmarish traps
Area teen lured by promises of adventure
describes a life of lies, drugs and abuse.
By Jim DeBrosse
Dayton Daily News
Staff Writer
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
MIAMISBURG — Jonathon Pope, 19, was jobless and in the middle of a nasty break-up with his girlfriend when he spotted a classified ad in the Dayton Daily News last spring that promised a traveling sales job with "road rules atmosphere." Pope called a recruiter and, over the phone, was hired as a door-to-door magazine and books sales person. In two hours he was on a bus to St. Louis. "I was just looking for a way to get out of Miamisburg, get out of Ohio." What Pope didn't realize was that he would start out working 8- to 12-hour days, six days a week, learning how to make up lies to customers to meet his daily sales quota. He would adopt the traveling crew's hard-partying lifestyle and turn to drugs. And after six months, when he wanted to go home, he would be dumped at a Wal-Mart near San Antonio, Texas, with just $17 in his pocket. Pope's long, strange and often dangerous trip is being played out by thousands of young adults all over the country seeking adventure and easy income, only to find themselves trapped in an itinerant world of drugs, sex, crimes and sometimes mental and even physical abuse, says Earlene Williams, director of Parent Watch Inc., a nonprofit group that helps young traveling salespeople find their way to safety. Williams said she gets hundreds of calls and e-mails a year from young people who want to get out of the business but who are afraid of retribution from managers or have nowhere to go, or both. The National Consumers League lists traveling youth crews among the five most dangerous jobs for teens. Both organizations want to end the door-to-door sales industry's exemption from labor laws that they say allow abuses to continue. Industry representatives say the problems have been greatly exaggerated. The Magazine Publishers Association estimates that door-to-door sales account for 1 percent of all sales while the National Field Selling Association puts the figure at 2 percent to 3 percent. "The media pick up on the aberrations and the things that happen in the industry that are unfortunate," said Dan Smith, an attorney representing the National Field Selling Association. The association issues professional guidelines for firms to follow, he said. But Williams says she's hearing a different story from young people on the road. "You can tell they are afraid just by how they talk on the phone."
By Jim DeBrosse
Staff Writer
Dayton Daily News
daytondailynews.com
Dayton, Ohio
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Dayton, Ohio
March 14, 2007
Area teen learns tough lesson through door-to-door sales
By Jim DeBrosse
Staff Writer
Dayton Daily News
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
MIAMISBURG — Jonathon Pope kept his door-to-door sales pitch simple and sweet, saying he was the son of the woman down the street and selling magazines to help the Blackhawks select baseball club. If customers asked which woman, he'd say, "You know, the one who walks the golden retriever every morning." Only one problem — none of it was true. And the better Pope got at lying, the more sales he made as part of an itinerant sales crew that traveled the country working all day and partying all night, the 19-year-old Miamisburg resident said. Pope spent six months in an industry under growing scrutiny for allegations that its young sales people are encouraged to spin stories to meet quotas and are either induced or coerced to stay on the job by easy access to drugs, limited access to their paychecks and mental and even physical abuse from managers. Earlene Williams, whose organization Parent Watch Inc. filed a racketeering lawsuit against the door-to-door magazine sales industry in 1982, says she has been trying for 25 years to get Congress to end the industry's exemption from labor practices laws. She says her organization is getting five to six calls a day and as many e-mails from young adults who want to get out of the traveling sales business but can't find a way. That's four to five times as many emergency contacts as the organization received in the 1980s and double the amount in 2003, she said. Williams said she has heard from sales people who were beaten for not meeting quotas or for trying to leave the crew, either by their managers or other crew members. "The thing is, they do it very publicly so that everyone sees it. It leaves the whole crew in fear." She said victims have told her that some crews play a game called "geeb," in which sales people who fail to meet quotas for the day are loaded last on the van and are beaten by the others already on board until they reach the last seat, she said. Sales people often share cramped motel rooms, with the lowest seller of the day sleeping on the floor, she said. Crews range anywhere from six to 25 people and often recruit in malls and door to door as they travel. Many traveling sales crews advertise they will pay for transportation home for those who want out. But Williams said she has heard from hundreds of sales people who, like Pope, say they were denied bus tickets and dumped hundreds and even thousands of miles from home. Pope's crew manager, John Wigman of Periodical and Publications Connections, did not return several phone calls to his recruiting number requesting an interview. Industry representatives say labor advocates like Williams exaggerate the number of abuses among hundreds of crews employing young adults, mostly ages 18 to 25. "A lot of that stuff is rare, and it gets played up in the media like it's a common practice," said Dan Smith, a Washington, D.C., attorney who represents the National Field Selling Association. While most magazine subscriptions are sold directly by publishers and through direct mail, insert cards and the Internet, many publishers also hire clearinghouses, who in turn subcontract with crew managers who hire door-to-door sellers. Both Williams and Smith say the number of crews is on the rise because the No Call List has hampered telemarketing sales. Pope said he was never the victim of physical abuse and never directly witnessed any, but the verbal and mental abuse from managers and other crew members was like boot camp. "They yell at you, they cuss at you. They would tear you down in every way possible so they could build you up again the way they wanted you to be." But Pope also admitted that he got into drugs, including methamphetamines and crack, while traveling with the crew. He was never given those drugs from managers, he said, but their use was popular among many crew members. "The lifestyle just sort of sucks you in, and you get stuck. I thought at one time there was no way I would ever get out." Pope said members of his crew were given a minimum of $15 a day for meal allowances, on up to $20, depending on whether they met or exceeded their quota of 15 subscriptions for the day. "Most of the time I met my (daily sales) quota early and I'd end up taking a two- or three-hour nap," he said. In the evenings, the car-handler would pick up the crew members, return them to the motel, where the partying would last until 4 or 5 in the morning, he said. The working day would begin again at 8:30 a.m. for those who didn't meet their quota, and 9:30 a.m. for those who did. To meet his quota, Pope said he was instructed to make up stories by more seasoned sales people, but never by a manager. "They're smart. They know they can't do that themselves, or they'll get caught," said Malinda Quattlebaum, Pope's mother. The standard line was that the crew was selling subscriptions to raise money for a select baseball club, usually called the Blackhawks "because nearly every town has a team named the Blackhawks," Pope said. The pitch was further personalized by having the sales people say they were sons or daughters of a neighbor "down the street." But once the crew hit Texas, Pope said, word had spread about the phony select baseball clubs, so he and other crew members began posing as University of Texas students working their way through college. Pope said managers never officially endorsed the college student ruse but they paid for University of Texas sweatshirts and T-shirts for crew members to wear. The turning point for Pope came in Texas, where he was arrested by police for false representation and threatened with a lawsuit by the University of Texas. When his managers refused to give him any legal backing, Pope said he purposely failed to meet his sales quotas to get out of the business. Within days, he was separated from the rest of the crew, dropped off at a Wal-Mart parking lot near San Antonio with just $17 in his pocket and told to find his own way home, he said. Pope's traveling days are over. He now works at a McDonald's restaurant he can walk to from his mother's home in Miamisburg and is saving up his money so he can go to technical school. "I'm just trying to get back on my feet again." Pope said his magazine sales crew experience taught him at least one important lesson. "I learned that you can easily be manipulated by other people and what they tell you. I just learned not to follow anyone but me."

Contact this reporter at (937) 225-2437 or jdebrosse@DaytonDailyNews.com.

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How to protect young sales people
Earlene Williams of Parent Watch Inc., a nonprofit clearinghouse for information on traveling sales crews, offers this advice: Don't buy magazines or books from door-to-door sales people. "If the kid suffers more in the short-term (from lack of sales), they may leave faster and find a safe haven." Don't invite them into your home, but ask the sales person if he or she is in trouble and wants to make a phone call for help. If they have no family to call, recommend Parent Watch (212) 666-4221 or www.parentwatch.org. If you do plan to buy a subscription, ask to see identifying information for both the sales person and the organization they say they are raising money for. Always pay with a check. Some sales people will pocket your cash and not turn in your sales receipt.

Sources: Parent Watch Inc. and Jonathon Pope a former door-to-door sales person

By Jim DeBrosse
Staff Writer
Dayton Daily News
daytondailynews.com
Dayton, Ohio
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Tuesday, August 7, 2007

~Another follow up~


Daughter’s death sets off father’s crusade


Accident spurs legislative action


By Todd Murphy


The Portland Tribune, Aug 11, 2006


It has been more than seven years since he lost her, his only daughter.


But it still feels like yesterday, Phil Ellenbecker says. So every night, and on most weekends, there’s a good chance the Verona, Wis., telecommunications engineer is in front of his computer at home.


Checking one more criminal court case. Finding one more news article. Talking to one more reporter from some distant newspaper. And putting another new Web link, another new warning, onto the Web site he created to monitor and dog an industry he thinks cavalierly exploits and throws away vulnerable young adults, such as his daughter, to make a buck.


"It’s something that never leaves you, you know," Ellenbecker says, talking about losing a child — in his case, his 18-year-old daughter, Malinda Turvey. "What I’ve tried to do over the years is focus my anger and my pain and my energy toward stopping these people."


Turvey was one of seven agents from a traveling magazine sales crew killed in a van accident outside Janesville, Wis., in March 1999, when a driver for the crew tried to switch places with a passenger while the van was traveling 80 miles per hour down an interstate highway.


The driver, who had a suspended license and a bad driving record, had spotted a patrol officer. He lost control of the van, which rolled several times. Twelve sales agents were ejected from the vehicle.


The driver of the van pleaded guilty to reckless homicide. The owner of the magazine sales company was sentenced to three and a half years of incarceration on charges related to the accident.


While the Wisconsin accident was one of the most horrific, it was only one of a number of fatal accidents involving magazine sales crews in which reckless, drunken or sleepy drivers or poorly maintained vehicles were to blame.


And for his daughter’s death and the others, Ellenbecker blames an entire industry that, he says, routinely exploits young agents, working them long hours while paying them $20 or less a day, caring little about their safety and in some cases actually allowing crew managers to physically and sexually assault them.


"If I had my way, I’d herd them up and dump them into the ocean — every one of them," he says of the people who own and run the magazine sales crews.


Web sites raise awareness


Ellenbecker’s focus during the past several years has been twofold. One is to create and update Web sites — especially www.travelingsalescrews.info — that detail, monitor and chronicle the industry’s problems and problem companies.


The other has been to lobby the Wisconsin Legislature to make changes in state law that would make it more difficult for the magazine sales crews to operate in that state.


A bill in last year’s Wisconsin Legislature — which Ellenbecker helped champion and which was called Malinda’s Traveling Sales Crew Protection Act — won unanimous approval in the state Senate but was stalled in a committee of the other house, the state Assembly.


Ellenbecker says the bill will be sponsored again in next year’s legislative session.


And, he said, he will continue working on his Web site, monitoring the industry, finding ways to either change the way it operates or kill it entirely.


He doesn’t mind the work, which he figures is 100 hours a week beyond his 40-hours-per-week job. And that work is spurred on not only by his daughter’s memory but by some of the "agonizing and painful" phone conversations he has had with other parents whose children have been killed or have died in an accident while on a magazine sales crew, Ellenbecker says.


"If you talk to these people like I’ve talked to these people … and seen the things I’ve seen … you’d want to stop them, too," he says.


Related stories:


Subscription for disaster, Part I:


www.portlandtribune.com/news/story.php?story_id=115501199061804400


Subscription for disaster, Part II:


www.portlandtribune.com/news/story.php?story_id=115525463085268000


Industry complaints aren't new:


www.portlandtribune.com/news/story.php?story_id=115525687461688100


toddmurphy@portlandtribune.com


 


Thank you for reading this....it needs to get out!