Wednesday, October 3, 2007

ABC of Achievement


Avoid negative sources, people, things and habits.

Believe in yourself.

Consider things from every angle.

Don't give up and don't give in.

Enjoy life today, yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.

Family and Friends are hidden treasures. Seek them and enjoy their riches.

Give more than you planned to give.

Hang on to your dreams.

Ignore those who try to discourage you.

Just do it!

Keep on trying, no matter how hard it seems.

It will get better.

Love yourself first and foremost.

Make it happen.

Never lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal.

Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

Practice makes perfect.

Quitters never win and winners never quit.

Read, study and learn about everything important in life.

Stop Procrastination.

Take control of your own destiny.

Understand yourself in order to understand others.

Visualize it.

Want it more than anything.

Xccelerate your efforts.

You are unique, nothing can replace you.

Zero in on your target, and go for it!!


 


 


~Just something lighthearted...~


In George Washington's days, there were no cameras. One's image was either sculpted or painted. Some paintings of George Washington showed him standing behind a desk with one arm behind his back while others showed both legs and both arms. Prices charged by painters were not based on how many people were to be painted, but by how many limbs were to be painted. Arms and legs are "limbs," therefore painting them would cost the buyer more. Hence the expression, "Okay, but it'll cost you an arm and a leg."


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As incredible as it sounds, men and women took baths only twice a year (May and October)! Women kept their hair covered, while men shaved their heads (because of lice and bugs) and wore wigs. Wealthy men could afford good wigs made from wool. They couldn't wash the wigs, so to clean them they would carve out a loaf of bread, put the wig in the shell, and bake it for 30 minutes. The heat would make the wig big and fluffy, hence the term "big wig." Today we often use the term "here comes the Big Wig" because someone appears to be or is powerful and wealthy.


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In the late 1700s, many houses consisted of a large room with only one chair. Commonly, a long wide board folded down from the wall, and was used for dining. The "head of the household" always sat in the chair while everyone else ate sitting on the floor Occasionally a guest, who was usually a man, would be invited to sit in this chair during a meal. To sit in the chair meant you were important and in charge. They called the one sitting in the chair the "chair man" Today in business, we use the expression or title "Chairman" or "Chairman of the Board."


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Personal hygiene left much room for improvement. As a result, many women and men had developed acne scars by adulthood. The women would spread bee's wax over their facial skin to smooth out their complexions. When they were speaking to each other, if awoman began to stare at another woman's face she was told, "mind your own bee's wax." Should the woman smile, the wax would crack, hence the term "crack a smile" In addition, when they sat too close to the fire, the wax would melt .. . . therefore, the expression "losing face."


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Ladies wore corsets, which would lace up in the front. A proper and dignified woman, as in "straight laced". . . wore a tightly tied lace.


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Common entertainment included playing cards. However, there was a tax levied when purchasing playing cards but only applicable to the "Ace of Spades." To avoid paying the tax, people would purchase 51 cards instead.

Yet, since most games require 52 cards, these people were thought to be stupid or dumb because they weren't "playing with a full deck."


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Early politicians required feedback from the public to determine what the people considered important. Since there were no telephones, TV's or radios, the politicians sent their assistants to local taverns, pubs, and bars. They were told to "go sip some ale" and listen to people's conversations and political concerns. Many assistants were dispatched at different times. "You go sip here" and "You go sip there." The two words "go sip" were eventually combined when referring to the local opinion and, thus we have the term "gossip."



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At local taverns, pubs, and bars, people drank from pint and quart-sized containers. A bar maid's job was to keep an eye on the customers and keep the drinks coming. She had to pay close attention and remember who was drinking in "pints" and who was drinking in "quarts," hence the term "minding your"P's and Q's."


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One more: bet you didn't know this!
In the heyday of sailing ships, all war ships and many freighters carried iron cannons. Those cannons fired round iron cannon balls. It was necessary to keep a good supply near the cannon. However, how to prevent them from rolling about the deck? The best storage method devised was a square-based py ramid with one ball on top, resting on four resting on nine, which rested on sixteen. Thus, a supply of 30 cannon balls could be stacked in a small area right next to the cannon. There was only one problem...how to prevent the bottom layer from sliding or rolling from under the others. The solution was a metal plate called a "Monkey" with 16 round indentations.
However, if this plate were made of iron, the iron balls would quickly rust to it. The solution to the rusting problem was to make "Brass Monkeys." Few landlubbers realize t hat brass contracts much more and much faster than iron when chilled. Consequently, when the temperature dropped too far, the brass indentations would shrink so much that the iron cannonballs would come right off the monkey. Thus, it was quite literally, "Cold enough to freeze the balls off a brass monkey" (All this time, you thought that was an improper expression, didn't you.)


 


sent to me by my great aunt. :o)


 



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I'm ok now/a poem I wrote last night

.....Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not.I have to be careful, apparently someone are way too obsessed with 'my' life. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......


 



 


I really do hope that everyone is doing better today and not in much pains.


Yesterday, when my daughter came over with my grandson, it really did help me so very much. My grandson was in his little onry moods and he made me laugh! I so needed that! :o) It was the perfect medicine for me! My daughter's sweet hugs and my grandson's onry-ness! lol
She went home for dinner and then called me back because she was having a hard time with a certain math assignment. My husband is very smart when it comes to math, so she and my grandson came back over and my husband helped her with her math and my grandson was sleeping next to me in my bed! Too precious!
I was watching Dancing With the Stars again and my grandson woke up! He loves to dance as well and just loves music! He sat right up and smiled at me! God bless him! So, we both were getting into it! :o)
My daughter and my husband were both stumped on this one problem. They could get the answer but to show how, that was what was making it harder. (I have no idea, I'm not smart when it comes to math) After she left...my husband had figured it out in his head and called her to let her know! They work great as a team! :o)

After they left last night....I just couldn't seem to get to sleep. I was trying everything. Too much on my mind. I'm not going to go to the Adult Day Care Center today. I'm very shaky this morning and I just don't think I can be around too many people today.
My Case Manager called me yesterday and is coming here at 10:00. I have some questions for her so I'm glad she's coming.
Since I was having such a hard time getting to sleep, I wrote a poem. Words just came to me. It's not a very good one, but this is what came to me and I just wrote it all down.


                                 To Live


To live life is a form of art,
feeling the flutter and to just listen,
relax, to deeply understand your own heart.
The touch of the swirling breeze,
brigtness of the sun sets colors,
shinning strong at a beacon's ease.
Using all of the earth's gifts,
feeling all of God's love all around us,
knowing that when I fall, I have Heavens lift.
Reach out your hand, and close your eyes,
Take in what life has for you,
God's form of art is for all to see and feel its surprise.
Live your life on this stage of the gifts,
accept all that has been given to you,
just say thank you and don't look back on the "If's,"


Lisa


After I wrote this, I was then able to go to sleep.
I truly want to thank all of you for being here for me! From my heart...I really mean it! Without all of you, I know I would have just lost it. All of your kind words helped me so very much!

Please smile today! Give many hugs! Live with no regrets!


 


Tuesday, October 2, 2007

.....Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not.I have to be careful, apparently someone are way too obsessed with 'my' life. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......


 



Good afternoon.....in hopes that this finds you all well and not in much pains!


I'm so sorry about my journal entry's earlier. Firstly; I am very upset over the loss of Penny. I have prayed so hard this morning for Corey and her family and friends. Secondly; Please take this how I mean it....I can't remember what it's called but, when I either wake up and find something thats 'not the same for me,' for some reason, I freak out. It has something to do with the fibromyalgia is what I was told. So, I was kind of batteling the two at once. I feel that I have to make a regular entry, or I won't be doing 'the same as I normally do.' I know, it's weird. But it's my life and what I go through.
Also....the reason that I have the disclaimer up everytime "I" write, is because of a few people. Yes, my sister being one of them and the other is the one I rant about. My husband had me do this. He wrote it and I've had to add a few things. It's called, "Saving my butt!" If I do talk about someone, yes, I will let them know!

My day was pretty slow yesterday. My home health aide came. I really like her. She is always busy doing something! I like that. She actually cleans for me, nothing like the other aides.
I made my diner, the ones that are delivered....they come frozen and all I have to do is put them in the microwave. There was a football game on last night with the Bengals. My husband and son were in the living room doing a lot of yelling! lol The Benglas are not doing good at all this year.
I was in my bedroom watching Dancing With the Stars. I really like that show. That is the thing I miss the most; dancing! I love to dance. It's so hard for me to listen to music and not dance. I tap my foot! :o) I really think they have some good stars on it this year. I love to watch 'The Cheeta' girl and the 'race car driver.' They are my two favorites.
My case manager called my this morning. I told her that I fell on Friday. I guess I'm suppose to call her to let her know. Now I know. She also told me that there is a doctor in Dayton that actually makes house calls! Wow! She is coming tomorrow for a visit to see how things are going.
My daughter and grandson are here....so I'm going to get off of here....they will deffinitly cheer me up!

Thank you all for your support....and God bless all of you!


 










The greatest healing of sorrow is to be found in your faith.


 


This has hit me hard, as I know it has all of J-Land. Penny is now one of God's angels! How great is that!
I'm having a very hard time coming up with the right words. I will truly miss her!
I'm praying for her daughter and family. I know she wouldn't want me to be the way I am right now, she would want a smile. This is all I can write right now. God bless all of you!



 



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Monday, October 1, 2007

Has anyone told you that you are loved?

I absolutly love this! It's beautiful! Please Click here!


 


Lisa


 


 



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Pictures of my new sink/and just other stuff

.....Just to let you know, nothing in this journal's entry is toward anyone in specific, I use it to write my feelings, and about my illnesess, and in hopes it might help someone else as I do.I do not pretend nor imatate to be someone I'm not.I have to be careful, apparently someone are way too obsessed with 'my' life. And if you might take an entry wrong and feel that it is about you, I'm sorry but It isn't, it just may seem to coincide with your own life. And if there is something in what I write that "offends" you, options; don't read, or realize that this IS real life, and get out of your plastic bubble and learn more about it! God bless you!......



Good morning everyone! Hoping that all of you are doing and feeling great today!


I finally took some pictures of my new canes and my new sink! :o) Dh worked on it all day yesterday! The only thing thats not done is putting the mirror/medicine cabinate up and the doors on the bottom! YAY! I just love it! I am so grateful for what he did and he told me that he wanted to make sure it was in working order for me for today! God bless him! It's just the right size for me because I'm short! lol And I just took a picture of where my toilet is in my bedroom as well. It's straight across from the sink, and I have a curtain divider that seperates my room and my little bathroom! :o) I just love it!

Also...excuse my bed...it's a mess. I had just gotten up and my physical therapist had come. She gives me my deep tissue massage on my bed. Yes....the massage really hurt me. My left shoulder and hip are still very tender and sore!
I told her that I was at the er on Friday and I didn't know if I was suppose to call the agancy or my case manager or not. She told me that I'm suppose to call one of them to let them know and they will come out and make sure I'll be ok if I'm not admitted to the hospital. Soooo, now I know! :o) This is just all new to me and she said she understands because the first time, everyone doesn't really know what to do at first...Whew...I'm glad I'm not the only one! lol I did keep the papers from the er and she read them and took notes. After the massage, I was getting out of my bed and she had to help me because I'm still so dizzy! Geesh! She told me that she was very glad to see that I have those new canes to use, because she said that they do keep and give you are more balanced way to walk. I was glad to hear that! She helped me walk to the kitchen so I could turn on my coffee and back to my room. She said she's worried about me being this dizzy.....so am I! And the side effects from the Vicodine is dizziness! LOL Too funny! :o) Oh well!
So, I need to call my case manager and let her know. I needed to call her anyways today because I have a few questions to ask her. I really like her, she has such a great sense of humor! :o)

My home health aide will be coming today at 1:30. So far, I like her. She actually works! :o)
I don't have anything planned today. Just the same old rest still! Bummer! It will get better. Theres a book I keep wanting to get started on, but everytime I try, I just can't do it, because I'm too dizzy and it makes my stomach upset!

About yesterdays entry, believe it or not, I just touched on a few things in my life growing up. I was 12 years old when I acceped Jesus into my heart as my savior! I remember that day so well!
And yes, I went through a lot of couseling because of my life when I was growing up. We even had family counseling just with my mom, my stepdad and me. He blamed everything on me. I was in and out of the hospital for ulcers! That started when I was 14. And for two years, I had missed so much school because of being in the hospital. My doctor told me that I was too young to have problems with ulcers! I didn't know because I didn't know what they were or what caused them. I would be in for weeks at a time!
I think my doctor knew what was going on in my house to me. But nothing was ever said about it. I don't know why. I was basically raised as the 'fifth wheel' and was told so! How I didn't belong like my sisters did. I was someone else child. He actually told me one day at the dinner table how much he hated me and that he never did and never will love me! And I was 15 and getting ready to go to work! I was made to work. I of course just started to cry because I knew in my heart how much I tried. This will probably sound pretty stupid of me but, when I watched t.v. and watched something like The Waltons, Little House on The Prarrie, or just anything that had a family setting....I just thought that it was all made up! I never knew anything else that was outside of my own home. I thought that was how everyone's home life was. I didn't know the difference. I was never allowed to spend the night with anyone or have anyone spend the night with me. Now I know why. I went to church camps and was only allowed to associate with kids from my church. His rules.
When I did talk to him and forgave him for all that he had done to me, I knew that it was nothing I did wrong. He was/is a very sick man! And my mom...yes, she did know. No, she didn't do anything about it. I don't understand why, but I have talked with her as well and forgave her. Her and I have a very good relationship now. :o) I don't blame them for really anything because ....They know not what they've done! I'm fine now and I consider myself a surviver. :o)


This is why my family is so important to me! :o) There were two ways I could have gone when I had my children. Either do the same to them as how I was raised, or do the opposite! I chose the opposite! :o) We never spanked them or go too far with giving them too much material things. We just spoiled them with love! And I'm very proud of the way they have grown up! :o)  When you 'hit' your child, all you're doing is teaching them to hit! And what does that accomplish? Nothing. We talked to ours and let them know why they got in trouble and then something was taken away from them...like their radio, and they had to earn it back! No reason to hit your kids. (my opinion) It's all about love and mututral respect and unconditional love!
I have a sister...the first born for my stepfather...that would rather see me dead! And thats exactly what she told me! She thought that I was prentending that I had Fibromyalgia! Oh yea...sure I was! She said not to talk to her kids about it because "I" didn't have it! This sister acts a lot like her father and my stepfather! She was always asking us to help her, like staying with us for awhile and things like that. We never turned her down because she really needed our help. About a year and a half ago, once again I got a call from her asking if she could stay here until she could get back on her feet and she would also be closer to her children....the father has them and they are divorced. She had an ultearer motive! She caused so much havic and pain to my family and my best friend! She did actually tell me that the only reason that she wanted to stay here was to break up my friendship with my best friend and to basically break up our strong family unit! She tried and almost did it! But our family's love and support for each other was so much more stronger than her bad ways and lies! I kicked her out and she told me that she would rather see me dead! So...she called me about a month ago telling me that she's "changed" and she did a lot of soul searching! I'm sorry...I just don't believe her. I'm not at all trying to be mean but, this is what she says everytime she starts trouble and lies! Like the boy who called wolf! She's made it to where no one in the family trusts her or believe her, and she's done that to herself! So, we don't have a close sister relationship because of this. Sad. We used to have so much fun together! I do miss that. My dh even said that it would have been nice if she could have been here at my daughter's wedding. Yes, it would have. But we both know that we have to keep our distance, because of the trust issues with her. I do love her because she is my sister, but I don't have to like the things that she does and says.
Well....I should end this chapter! :o) By the way, does anyone know how to have your journal copy righted? I'd like to write a book and also use this journal as well. And, does anyone know how to start a book? I'm very serious! Thank you! :o)
I also want to thank all of you for your comments! :o) Thank you! They really do help me to get through my days! No kidding! :o) Oh...I also would like to say SMILE ! :o) Find something that makes you laugh! And make sure you give many hugs! Be sure to tell everyone you love, that you love them! :o) I truly love my family! God bless all of you! :o)


Have the best day that you can!