Yesterday was another one of those days again. For the better part of the day, it was just my husband and I here at home. I was in bed on the heating pad. Now both of my hips are hurting and my upper left thigh. And now my upper body decided to start in on me again. I was expecting my sister home and my daughter had said that she was going to come over for a bit. I didn't know where my son had gone, so I didn't know when he'd be back. My best friend came over which really cheered me up. :o) Right after she left is when everyone started coming home. :o) It was great to see my sister again and my grandson. :o) My son came home with his girl friend and a few of his friends. At around 7:00, my daughter asked if I could babysit for a few hours so she and her boy friend could go to dinner or watch a movie. Of course I did. :o) With the help of my sister and my husband. Now....what I witnessed last night of my grandson, my daughter and my son is what is tearing me apart! My son has not listened to our house rules for some time now, and I'm going to give him 2 weeks to find another place to live. I can't handle the stress from that! When my daughter was here with my grandson, I noticed that when he was going to sleep, he had to hold her hair to fall asleep. and when she would try to get her hait out of his hands, he would wake up crying. Now, to me thats a security issue. In my opinion. Plus, when she was here, he was very hyper, which is not like him normally. Of course, I didn't mind. :o) But what I noticed and my husband and sister did as well, was after she left and his dad, he went right back to the way he is normally! And was I was rocking him to sleep, he did still have to have something in his hand to fall asleep. This is all new. Last week when my sister and I watched him, he was so mad, we put him in his play pen and he did nothing but yell and scream for about 2 and a half hours! No crying no tears, just a bitch session for him! After he got it all out on his toys and beating them up as well, he was all better and right back to being the same as I know him to be. I do know that my daughter and her boy friend haven't been getting along for awhile. In my opinion, I feel that my grandson has witnessed way too much! And it hurts me to see this. :o( So, my heart is very upset. :o( I don't know what to do. If anyone does, please help. I can't stand to see my grandson go through this. I've tried talking to mydaughter about it and I thought I got through to her, but I guess I didn't. Because in my opinion, my grandson should be their prority! As I'm seeing it, he's not! :o( It's just tearing my heart out! :o( My son, I know how to handle, but this situation, I don't. When I know it's not just me seeing this and so is my husband and my sister, then I know something is wrong. :o( I just had to get all of that off my chest.
Please keep comments coming...I really need them. God bless you. :o)